I've often wondered why people ask "What do you do?" when they really mean “What is your job or profession?”
I’ve also wondered why people don’t ask, in a literal sense, “What do you do?”
If they did, I would answer: I travel the world and meet people of all walks of life. Every morning I wake up excited to smell the aroma of fresh coffee while reading the newspaper. I write as if it were the oxygen I need to breathe. I run, inhaling deeply the oxygen I do need to breathe. I ski. I laugh. I learn.
Yet, it may only be close friends and devoted blog readers who know this about me. I certainly don’t mention it in the cover letters for job applications that supposedly serve as an introduction. Nor do I use it in my reply to the many acquaintances who inquire about what I’m doing…. with a tone of “you graduated, you had your once-in-a-lifetime (ha!) fun of tromping around the world, now what job is it that I can define you by.”
This past month… missing conspicuously out of this blog… has been spent coming to a compromise between the realities of “normal” life and the free-spirited nature I’ve nurtured during the last several months.
In the end, this compromise reads: “A source of income to meet financial obligations is necessary, but being defined by that source of income is not. The excitement I feel about my new job is wonderful, but happiness is not dependent on being in one particular place or situation. A little focus now will reap many rewards later.”
BTW, the new job is at KTUU Channel 2 News!! I get to be an oh-so-auspicious-sounding “Associate Producer”… or, in my terms, I get to be in a news room learning from amazing people about the role and potential of the media in our local community aka world!!